A man’s story of suffering due to his girlfriend’s inability to let go of her dead ex-boyfriend is shared on “Love’s Naggers”.
On KBS Joy’s show “Love’s Naggers” aired on July 4th, the story of a couple of two 32-year-olds as they are standing on the brink of a breakup, was discussed.
The man who submitted the story revealed that his girlfriend still can’t forget her dead ex-boyfriend and becomes deeply immersed in sorrow.
The ex-boyfriend of the girlfriend is also a friend of the man telling this story, making it a difficult situation for him to express his anger.
At first, the man understood his girlfriend’s feelings, but as time passed, her actions began to go too far, causing him stress.
His girlfriend visits the ex-boyfriend’s mother and grave every weekend. She even raises a dog named after the ex-boyfriend.
Moreover, she went as far as suggesting a trip to Europe on the ex-boyfriend’s birthday because he had wanted to go there during his lifetime.
Even more shocking are the text messages exchanged between the girlfriend and the ex-boyfriend’s mother.
According to the messages, the ex-boyfriend’s mother said, “Jun (the ex-boyfriend) is causing both you and me so much hardship with his lingering attachment. The monk told me you two should have a wedding ceremony. Then Jun could leave peacefully. Please help us send Jun off well.“
Later, the mother contacted the girlfriend again, “Are you doing well? I’m texting you because I miss you. Thanks to you, Jun left without feeling lonely.”
She added, “Thank you. You two are a destined connection made by heaven. I hope you only walk a blessed path. My dear. I will contact you occasionally.“
After the ex-boyfriend’s death, the girlfriend, whose health had been consistently poor, decided to hold a soul wedding with him at the request of his mother.
The man said, “When I suddenly remembered that my girlfriend had spent a month living at the ex-boyfriend’s mother’s house, my mind became confused. I don’t have the courage to ask her directly. What should I do?“
After hearing this story, Kim Sook commented, “You need to set boundaries. She even had a wedding ceremony. How long will you let yourself be used?” Seo Jang Hoon advised, “Wake up and break up immediately.“
Source: Insight.
