Choi Young-ah (influencer, former weathercaster) made a new revelation.
“His answer was trash”
So she captured their conversation.
“It may be confusing, but I wanted to hear that he would take responsibility. His trash answer to that remains in the KakaoTalk screenshot.” (Choi Young-ah)
July 24, 2020, Obstetrics and Gynecology A.
On that day, Choi Young-ah had a conversation with Kim Seon-ho through her KakaoTalk. From 5:16 p.m. to 8:23 p.m., she sent and received a total of 284 messages. And she captured page 22 of the conversation between the two.
Dispatch exclusively obtained that day’s KakaoTalk. This is a “talk” that Choi Young-ah captured and sent to her acquaintances. Choi Young-ah pressed the capture key even when Kim Seon-ho was comforting her.
(Kim Seon-ho kept writing, and Choi Young-ah kept capturing. Kim Seon-ho’s messages were interlocked and captured.)
What kind of “trash” answer did Kim Seon-ho leave?
“I’m sorry I couldn’t be with you”, “Let’s think wisely”, “At least tell my parents”, “I’ll take responsibility no matter what happens”, “Don’t worry, go home and rest” (Kim Seon-ho)
There was no (trash) in Dispatch’s eyes. Can the readers see it? We will reveal the conversation between the two.
Choi Young-ah: I’m pregnant. 6 weeks
Kim Seon-ho: What should we do?
Choi Young-ah: This hospital doesn’t do surgery. They said they’d introduce me to another place if I wanted.
Kim Seon-ho: Well, let’s think about it
Choi Young-ah: We need to get to know each other more. I have no intention of binding you because of a baby, and just love is enough. But if I get an abortion, it can be difficult to have a baby again…
Kim Seon-ho: Well, I’ll think about it. Don’t worry too much.
Kim Seon-ho was filming KBS-TV’s “2 Days 1 Night” that day. He checked KakaoTalk during a break in the middle of filming. Choi Young-ah and Kim Seon-ho were a bit bewildered by the unexpected pregnancy news.
Choi Young-ah: I’m sorry, you were filming~ You were surprised, right?
Choi Young-ah: I hoped it was a lie. It would have been nice if it appeared in the future…
Kim Seon-ho: No, no
Choi Young-ah: I miss you
Kim Seon-ho: I’m sorry I couldn’t be with you
Choi Young-ah: No. I’m grateful to you.
Kim Seon-ho: Let’s think wisely.
Kim Seon-ho: Don’t worry too much. (5:23 p.m.)
Kim Seon-ho texted again 14 minutes later. He asked, “What are you doing?”. Choi Young-ah sent a photo of her wearing a mask. Kim Seon-ho sent her a heart and added, “I’ll take responsibility.”
Choi Young-ah: I’ve stopped the car for a moment and spaced out
Kim Seon-ho: lol
Kim Seon-ho: But
Kim Seon-ho: At least tell my parents
Choi Young-ah: Yeah hehehe I listen to you well and wear a mask even when I’m alone hehe
Kim Seon-ho: Hahaha so pretty
Choi Young-ah : Heart
Kim Seon-ho: Heart
Kim Seon-ho: Honey
Kim Seon-ho: No matter what happens
Kim Seon-ho: I’ll take responsibility
Kim Seon-ho: Don’t worry, go home and rest
Choi Young-ah: Honey… My heart is beating so fast. I was moved by what you said. Thank you very much
Kim Seon-ho: I love you (5:48 p.m.)
Dispatch moved the main conversations as much as possible except for Choi Young-ah’s health information (she said in Pann that it was difficult for her to get pregnant).
Kim Seon-ho texted again at 7:47 p.m.. First, he made her laugh with a light joke. However, he maintained seriousness when talking about the future.
Kim Seon-ho: But honey
Choi Young-ah: We need to talk
Kim Seon-ho: We have to get married
Kim Seon-ho: Now, you have no other choice
Kim Seon-ho: ㅋㅋ
Choi Young-ah: My heart skips a beatㅠㅠ
Kim Seon-ho: I will decide this during the week
Kim Seon-ho: Then tell my parents and decide the date next week
Kim Seon-ho was the first one to talk about “marriage”. He led the atmosphere by saying, “You have no other choice”. He also said that he would tell his parents. At this time, Choi Young-ah didn’t react to this as a “garbage” message but a “heart-fluttering” one.
Did Kim Seon-ho force her to get an abortion? At that time, both worried about each other. Kim Seon-ho was worried because he knew Choi Young-ah’s physical condition well. Meanwhile, Choi Young-ah expressed her frustration about getting conceived before marriage.
Choi Young-ah: Yes…! Whatever it is, I will discuss everything with you
Choi Young-ah: Thank you. You must be confused a lot right now
Kim Seon-ho: Not at all. I love you…
Kim Seon-ho: And I’m happy that we share the same thoughts.
Kim Seon-ho: I’m worried since we can’t have a child (at this moment)
Kim Seon-ho: If we get rid of the child, it would be a big concern either
Choi Young-ah: I think so either… To be honest, it would be better if we love and date for a long time more
Choi Young-ah: Then the baby comes when we are all ready.
Both Kim Seon-ho and Choi Young-ah felt a bit sorry that Choi Young-ah got pregnant at this moment.
Kim Seon-ho: I want to think of it as I have just received a blessing. But since this happens at this moment, I’m quite upset.
Choi Young-ah: No… Let’s think about this together
Kim Seon-ho: You also know that, right?
Kim Seon-ho: But it’s okay. Let’s discuss then decide and overcome this together
Kim Seon-ho: I haven’t loved anyone as much as you in my whole life
Choi Young-ah: Me, too… Of course, I didn’t expect that I would get pregnant ㅠㅠ
Choi Young-ah’s acquaintance – A gave more explanation about this conversation to Dispatch. They said neither Kim Seon-ho nor Choi Young-ah had planned for her pregnancy. That’s why they had no choice but to feel confused by the unexpected news.
“Both didn’t expect Choi Young-ah to get conceived. Young-ah even gave up herself and said, ‘It’s hard for me to have a baby’. That’s why I told Seon-ho, ‘I didn’t think that I would get pregnant.” (Choi Young-ah’s acquaintance)
Kim Seon-ho comforted Choi Young-ah, saying, “Let’s discuss, then decide and overcome this together.”
Kim Seon-ho: From now on, let’s think about what decision we should make and overcome this situation together.
Choi Young-ah: Okay, I agree. I trust you, my partner
Choi Young-ah: Whatever it is… We won’t be swayed and hurt each other
Kim Seon-ho: Our love is going well but
Kim Seon-ho: We need to take care of our situation and our parents
Kim Seon-ho: Your parents and my parents, we will do well anyways
Choi Young-ah: We can solve this. But, we really look like babiesㅠ
At that time, both were really confused. Kim Seon-ho was upset (about the sudden pregnancy), but excited (knowing that he has a child) and also worried (thinking about his girlfriend)
Kim Seon-ho: That’s why I’m nervous .
Kim Seon-ho: But I’m also excited.
Kim Seon-ho: You’re not crying in shock again, are you?
Kim Seon-ho: Honey?
Kim Seon-ho: It’s raining so I’m waiting.
Choi Young-ah: OK OK~
Kim Seon-Ho: You must be nervous.
Choi Young-ah: Cause It’s my first time experiencing it, too.
Kim Seon-ho: ㅋㅋㅋ
Choi Young: More than anything else, my biggest thought was that I didn’t want to give you any damage or block your way.
Kim Seon-ho: No, you’re not.
Wait a minute, let’s look at Choi Young-ah’s exposing post again.
“At that time, I had a stomachache and pain because I was six to seven weeks pregnant, and I told him clearly, but he asked for sex and said, “So I can do it inside now?” and he did. And he said, “Now you have really become his and you’re like my family.” (Choi Young-ah disclosed)
However, the phrase “mine/my person” already appeared in the conversation on July 24.
Kim Seon-ho: I know you must feel uneasy, but
Kim Sunho: It seems like you have become my person.
Kim Seon-ho: I said weird stuff all of a sudden. I guess I’m still a kid.
Choi Young-ah: ㅎㅎㅎ No. I’m the same.
Choi Young-ah: I’m just scared and worried. (7:58pm)
The phrase “My family” also follows this conversation.
Choi Young-ah: It’s time for me to make money, too.
Choi Young-ah: I haven’t even thought about it before, so I have to think about how to do it first.
Choi Young-ah: That’s what happens to me, too. It’s not a bad thing.
Kim Seon-ho: That’s what I thought, too.
Kim Seon-ho: At the same time, it’s actually good,
Kim Seon-ho: ㅎㅎㅎ Are you my family?
Kim Seon-ho : But actually honey, I want to get married.
“He told me if he had a child now, he would have to pay 900 million won in (advertising deals’) penalty and he didn’t have 900 million won right at the time. He told me to have an abortion, saying, “What if my parents have sit on the street because I can’t act when I have a baby” (Choi Young-ah’s disclosure)
The “penalty” issue also appears in the conversation between the two. He did think about the money, but soon canceled it, saying it’s “pathetic.”
Kim Seon-ho: Actually, I didn’t say it because it was very careless of me.
Kim Seon-ho: Since I signed a movie contract,
Kim Seon-ho: If I cancel that, my first thought was about the money.
Kim Seon-ho: I’m so pathetic.
Choi Young-ah: No. You should (think about the money problem)
Kim Seon-ho: But I don’t think it has anything to do with that.
Kim Sunho: Actually, that’s the only problem I have.
Kim Seon-ho: I’m sure my parents will be surprised, but they will understand (8:06pm)
He also expressed his sincere thought about his “acting” career. At least there is no threat(?)that his parents have to sit on the street in this conversation.
Kim Sunho: If I had to stop acting,
Kim Seon-ho: It’s actually so hard for me.
Choi Young-ah: It would be hard even if it (the pregnancy) came out when you were ready.
Choi Young-ah: I also think it’s a bad thing.
Kim Seon-ho: It’s not bad.
Kim Seon-ho: If you think about it coolly, that’s what it is.
Choi Young-ah: If you want to marry me because I have a baby.
Choi Young-ah: I don’t want you to date me because of responsibility.
Kim Seon-ho: No. I also love you so much.
Kim Seon-ho: Bur I am upset because I love acting just as much.
Kim Seon-ho: So I’m trying to make a decision that I won’t regret.
Kim Seon-ho: I don’t have much time to text now.
In mid-August, Choi Young-ah asked her acquaintances to watch “2 Days and 1 Night.”
“She said she couldn’t watch “2 Days and 1 Night” these days. She said she was guilty of laughing” (Choi Young-ah’s acquaintance)
Choi Young-ah knew Kim Seon-ho was feeling guilty. I (the acquaintance) witnessed the mental pain he suffered. Nevertheless, Choi Young-ah revealed that “Kim Seon-ho suddenly changed after the abortion.”
Let’s look at Kim Seon-ho’s sudden change on KakaoTalk on August 10. Below is a KakaoTalk conversation captured and delivered to an acquaintance by Choi Young-ah.
Kim Seon-ho: I really like you a lot
Kim Seon-ho: I love you so much
Kim Seon-Ho: You have become my another goal in life
Kim Seon-ho: I think of you as family now.
Kim Seon-ho: I’m so sorry I’m sensitive today.
Kim Seon-ho: If you love someone, you should understand more.
Choi Young-ha: Thank you for saying that…
Kim Seon-ho: I’m still young and narrow-minded.
Kim Seon-ho: Let’s hold hands and grow together in the right direction.
Kim Seon-ho: I’m sorry my (life) partner.
Kim Seon-ho has been sweet for a long time since. Here is a conversation on the day before Christmas last year.
Choi Young-ah: It’s so cold, right? ㅠㅠ
Kim Seon-ho: ㅎㅎ Yeah. It’s a little cold.
Kim Seon-ho: My partner, you’re working so hard.
Choi Young-ah: Can you rest this weekend? It must be so exhausting for you.
Choi Young-ah: I came to buy a bag after working out.
Kim Seon-ho: Show me
Choi Young-ah: (Photo)
Choi Young-ah: It looks like a lunch box. I wanted to show you anyway.
Choi Young-ah’s revelation is clever. It was based on what Kim Seon-ho said or did. On top of that, she seasoned it with an episode of “possibility.” Moreover, some descriptions are quite specific. It’s easy to be misled.
This is why we (Dispatch) discloses Choi Young-ah and Kim Seo-ho’s Kakao Talk. At least, shouldn’t we consider the authenticity? It has the same content as what Choi Young-ah’s acquaintances reported.
Kim Seon-ho and Choi Young-ah had a happy ending in 2020. However, cracks between the two’s relationship began to appear. The main factor was Choi Young-ah’s private life.
“Because of her being sensitive, she secretly moved out and paid the penalty for real estate expenses. She also changed her license plate and everything related to him” (Revelation)
Choi Young-ah’s acquaintance said, “She’s always like that”
“Hmm… It’s not the whole story. It’s true that she changed her license plate and moved out. But was it because of Kim Seon-ho? Not at all. She changed her car number plate, saying that women related to her ex-husband threatened her. The house owner wanted to raise the monthly rent so she moved out…”
Around that time, Kim Seon-ho heard some rumors about Choi Young-ah. There were rumors that were hard to tell. But he tried to believe her.
Then, he accidentally found hundreds of files that were secretly recorded and stored. Choi Young-ah said something vaguely, “It’s just a joke” and “This is for a lawsuit”.
(In fact, Choi Young-ah collected the evidence as a habit. When you look at the Kakaotalk obtained by Dispatch, Kim Seon-ho’s conversation matches with the screenshot photos. Choi Young-ah captured every moment of Kim Seon-ho and sent them to her friends. The same goes for the conversation below.)
Choi Young-ah’s acquaintances said, “Looking from Kim Seon-ho’s perspective, this relationship must have been a tough one.”
“From Kim Seon-ho’s point of view, he was always late to know the truth. Meeting a divorced woman, knowing that she lied and met other men, being recorded videos secretly… Would anyone be able to continue this relationship?”
Cracks in their relationships appeared. It was bearable at first. However, winds kept on coming in between them, then eventually created cracks. This is the conversation on July 7, 2020, when the first crack happened.
Kim Seon-ho: Let’s stop here. Because you get hurt and so do I. I think we have different thoughts. The ways we talk are not the same.
Choi Young-ah: I will try my best to make you trust me. I will not lie or hide a thing and will tell you everything in a second…
Kim Seon-ho: You’re a good person. So just meet someone better. Let’s break up. I don’t want to meet you anymore.
Choi Young-ah: I’m sorry for making you feel miserable
Kim Seon-ho: Thank you for saying this to me. I understand your words. But I don’t want to continue this relationship with you anymore.
Choi Young-ah: I want to become better… I feel sorry deep inside, but I shouldn’t have told a lie like that. I should have organized everything and told you anything honestly… I think I have rationalized that.
Choi Young-ah: Please give me one more chance. I’m not a person who always tells lies…
Kim Seon-ho: I’m really frustrated and sad. We did quarrel about lies and promises not long ago. You remember that?
Kim Seon-ho: Not long ago, you lied to me a little… That was a small thing so I just let it pass. Can a man understand a girlfriend who lies to him over and over again?
Kim Seon-ho: How can I trust and love a person who feels sorry but continues to lie and doesn’t care about the relationship?
Kim Seon-ho: You know how much I felt sad hearing everything from another person. I pretended I didn’t know anything and talked to you nicely. But you lied again today…
Kim Seon-ho: I told you when we first met, right? Even if you go to a club with men, I can understand everything. It’s okay if you just tell me honestly and notice me when you arrive home.
Kim Seon-ho: But you already broke the promise for the future… You lied to me again while smiling in front of me…
Choi Young-ah: I’m sorry for making you feel bad… That won’t happen again. I’m not a person who hits the back of others like that…
Kim Seon-ho: We have no future, Young-ah
In April 2021, the two had been apart for a while. They spent time thinking about each other. Kim Seon-ho announced the breakup in May. He said why he had no choice but to break up.
Choi Young-ah took notes until the last minute. While talking to Kim Seon-ho on the phone, she wrote down what he said. At the same time, she also sent these notes to her acquaintances.
“You’re like a time bomb. As it repeats many times…My love for you has cooled down. (omitted) I said that I hate it…Since then, my heart has cooled down…Because you make mistakes over and over again…And every time something happened, you were irresponsible…Pretending not to know…” (Choi Young-ah’s notes)
Choi Young-ah could not accept the breakup.
“(Choi Young-ah) had done all kinds of prayers. She went to temple and church. She even did dawn prayers at church. She also read saju and tarot cards…”
And, she told her friends.
“She said she’d wait until the dawn prayer was over. If he doesn’t come back, she won’t let him go…Watching (Seon-ho)’s activities, she said she couldn’t forgive him. She’d rather ruin it. At the same time, she keeps seeing other men.” (Choi Young-ah’s acquaintances)
Choi Young-ah locked Kim Seon-ho in a “trash” frame. He persuaded her to have an abortion, turned on her and left.
All acquaintances except Choi Young-ah said differently. That Kim Seon-ho was worried about her and he comforted her.
Obviously, Kim Seon-ho has to take responsibility for the abortion. However, there is no reason for him to be an object of ridicule as “Kim seaweed”.
On the contrary, Choi Young-ah cannot be free from the responsibility of false disclosure. She wrote a “possible” fiction based on exaggeration and distortion.