Irene , leader of Red Velvet and widely regarded as one of K-pop’s top visuals, recently became the target of online criticism after posting casual, makeup-free selfies and short clips on social media.

In the photos, Irene playfully puffed her cheeks and smiled — a gesture some netizens labeled “acting overly youthful” for someone “at auntie age.”

The comments, viewed by many as ageist and unreasonable, suggested that aegyo was “inappropriate” for a woman approaching 35. However, most responses came to Irene’s defense, stressing that 35 is far from “old” and that everyone has the right to express themselves as they please, as long as it’s respectful and within limits.

Fan comments included:

  • She’s naturally cute, there’s nothing forced about it.
  • Even with aegyo, she doesn’t look over the top — her youthful beauty makes it work.
  • At this age, keeping such elegance is rare.

Supporters also argued that Irene’s occasional cuteness adds warmth and approachability, contrasting her typically chic, “ice queen” image.

Since debut, Irene has been dubbed the “grand visual matriarch” of K-pop for her golden facial proportions, porcelain skin, and poised demeanor. Alongside Jisoo (BLACKPINK) and Tzuyu (TWICE), she’s considered part of Gen 3’s legendary “visual trio.”

Earlier this year, Irene and Seulgi made a bold sub-unit comeback with the TILT album, praised for its mature, sultry concept but also sparking debate over alleged “queerbaiting.”

Despite occasional criticism, Irene continues to draw admiration for her timeless beauty and enduring stage presence — proving that charm and elegance know no age limit.

Sources: K14