BTS leader RM has ignited widespread discussion after sharing his candid perspective on marriage and raising children during a recent Weverse livestream. His words resonated deeply with fans and Korean netizens alike, quickly going viral and earning him admiration for his maturity and honesty.
RM spoke openly about the social and cultural pressure surrounding marriage, particularly the heavy expectations often placed on women. He expressed concern that many people feel pushed into marriage due to societal norms and media influence rather than their own desires. “I just wish people could live at their own pace,” he said, adding that there is no universal “right answer” when it comes to life choices.
The rapper also reflected on the connection between loneliness and marriage, questioning whether tying the knot simply to avoid solitude is wise. “If someone struggles with being alone, marriage won’t magically fix that. Even when you’re married, there are times you’ll want to be by yourself. That’s human nature.”
On the subject of having children, RM admitted he finds the idea overwhelming. He explained that he sometimes struggles just to take care of himself and worries about the unpredictability of raising a child with their own personality and challenges. “When I think about how much trouble I gave my parents, I can’t help but imagine having a kid like me. Of course, I’d love them, but it wouldn’t be easy.”
RM concluded by emphasizing that both married and unmarried individuals speak only from their own experiences, and neither perspective is absolute. He suggested that his generation, particularly those born in the ’90s, is the first in Korea to widely see marriage as a choice rather than an obligation.
Netizens quickly praised his sincerity, with some even suggesting he should run for president in the future. Comments included:
- “He speaks with such maturity. A true leader.”
- “Marriage just to avoid loneliness is dangerous, and he explained that perfectly.”
- “Taking care of myself is already hard enough—what he said is so relatable.”
RM’s thoughtful remarks have reinforced his reputation not only as a musician but also as a voice of reason and reflection in Korean society.
Sources: Koreaboo
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