Actress Park Eun Bin shares her advice on human relationships.
On Nov 6th, a video titled “Park Eun Bin, a counseling master who left a lot of wise sayings today,” was posted on the YouTube channel “Vogue Korea.”
In the video, Park Eun Bin said, “I will try opening a counseling center. A lot of people sent us their concerns. However, my counseling may not be the answer.”
The first concern was about giving up a stable job to choose dream. Park Eun Bin said, “I have been doing this job for a long time because I like it, but it took me a long time to make sure whether ‘Is this right for me?’ Even if I has difficult moments from time to time, I think I got the answer by asking myself what I always like. I think it’s a very precious dream to me.”
The second concern was about how they wanted to speak well. Park Eun Bin said, “In fact, I speak quite carelessly in my daily life, except when I act. Even now, there are parts where my pronunciation are blurred while I read. Just live comfortably when you want to do so, and speak clearly when you want to speak clearly. If you are worried every time you meet people, reduce your worries. I can’t pronounce well when my mind is ahead of me. Too much tension is not good. Your body should be relaxed and calm and keep your own tempo,” she advised.
The third concern ask if Park Eun Bin has any phrase that comes to mind whenever she had a hard time. Park Eun Bin said, “‘So what? I have to make it happen’. I’m not saying this to spread that wise saying. It was a phrase that came to my mind at that moment. Nothing can be solved if you only sigh or blame yourself when you’re having a hard time. Thank you for saying that many people are getting motivated by me. However, there are parts where I am not living as hard as you think. Sometimes I want to allow parts that can be allowed, and when I have to do something, I want to make sure I finish it,” she said with a smile.
When concerns about being a fan came up, Park Eun Bin said, “I do like rabbits. But it’s not to the point where I am crazy enough to be hysteric about it. But if you ask me which animal I like the most in the world, I would say it’s a rabbit,” she shared.
The last concern was the story of a man in his 30s who was struggling with his social relationships. Park Eun Bin said, “The feeling of liking someone is a precious one. Just cut off those who refuse to understand that. I can’t give you a cool answer because I don’t know what kind of relationship it is, but I think you should only handle to your own limit. I was satisfied with focusing and expressing my feelings to people I could handle. You don’t have to try to exceed your capacity. It is a task that you have to adapt to as you get older. Take care of yourself first.”