Following their high-profile divorce earlier this year, Chen Xiao and Michelle Chen (陳妍希) have been thrust back into the spotlight — this time, due to a family tragedy and some eye-opening revelations.

On February 18, 2025, the former couple publicly announced the end of their 9-year relationship, agreeing to co-parent their child. But recent events have cast Chen Xiao in a negative light. When Michelle Chen’s father passed away in late 2025, Chen Xiao was notably absent from the funeral. Even more shocking? He was allegedly seen dining and drinking heavily with friends that same evening — with female staff members helping him walk due to intoxication.

Now, on December 12, a new layer has emerged. Netizens resurfaced private messages from Michelle Chen’s late father — revealing a surprisingly warm and thoughtful view of Chen Xiao, even during the early days of their relationship.

“I have no opinion on Chen Xiao,” he wrote in response to a fan in a DM, “but since Michelle agreed to this marriage, we naturally embrace what she loves.” He even shared that he had personally selected luxury coats and jackets from his own collection to give to his future son-in-law as a gesture of goodwill.

In another touching message, he explained why he had not insisted on Chen Xiao formally visiting him: “I don’t have a son, and I understand how hard they work. Before Chen Xiao even had a chance to formally greet me, I had already prepared myself to care for him as a son-in-law.” He ended his message by thanking fans for supporting both Michelle and Chen Xiao, and wishing them both happiness.

Now, with these affectionate messages in public view, the contrast with Chen Xiao’s alleged disrespectful absence is sparking widespread criticism online.

The actor was busy filming a new movie and did not travel to Taiwan (China) to attend his father-in-law’s funeral.

“Even if they’re divorced, skipping the funeral is too much,” one comment read.

Others defended Chen Xiao, citing privacy and personal reasons, but the timing of the party and his visible drunken state has only added fuel to the fire.

As public sympathy shifts towards Michelle Chen and her late father, Chen Xiao’s image is taking a noticeable hit. Some fans are now questioning his sincerity throughout the marriage, especially given the heartfelt efforts of his former father-in-law.

Whether intentional or not, Chen Xiao’s no-show at the funeral has reignited public scrutiny, proving that in the world of entertainment, personal actions — or inactions — can leave a lasting impact far beyond the stage.

Sources: Yahoo News