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The female YouTuber revealed the reason why should not date an idol

“You shouldn’t date a K-pop idol actually. I really don’t recommend it,” – The female YouTuber said.

Dating an idol has always been a dream of many fans. However, in reality, having a relationship with an idol is not as great as you might think.

Jina Kim – a YouTuber, recently revealed her own experience when she had a romantic relationship with an idol for one year. However, many things made K-pop fans think about falling in love with a celebrity through this story.

This relationship must always be a secret

According to the company’s regulations, trainees and idols are not allowed to date. On the other hand, if they are in a relationship, they must keep it private. Jina Kim revealed that she and her idol boyfriend knew each other through a dating app when he was still a trainee. They had been in love for three weeks when she discovers her boyfriend’s identity; she was both happy and worried about her love story. 

According to the company’s regulations, trainees and idols are not allowed to date. On the other hand, if they are in a relationship, they must keep it private. Jina Kim revealed that she and her idol boyfriend knew each other through a dating app when he was still a trainee. They had been in love for three weeks when she discovers her boyfriend’s identity; she was both happy and worried about her love story. 

“We were very happy in the first few months, but of course, he became very busy.” – Jina said. Even she and her boyfriend can only date two times a month.

The emergence of lies; meeting the lover is also difficult

Gradually, Jina and her idol boyfriend also began to have problems. She even realized the fact that the person was not taking this relationship seriously. This male idol said that he was busy practicing, but he posted pictures hanging out with friends on Instagram. Thus, Jina got angry and asked if she could go to the dorm to see him for 5 minutes. Her boyfriend immediately refused: “No, I can’t because there may be some paparazzi or fans surrounding me.”

During the dating time, she and her boyfriend could only order food and meet each other at the motel. Jina stated that her ex always sent a lot of the gifts he received from fans to her. Through this, Jina advised K-pop fans that they should not give idols expensive gifts because they will most likely give it to their lover.

The boyfriend must always be surrounded by beautiful female idols

Seeing many other girls appearing with their boyfriends also makes many people jealous. With Jina Kim, she also felt hurt and self-esteem when she couldn’t publicly stand with her boyfriend, even having to look at him next to many pretty idols in showbiz. This female YouTuber said that her boyfriend often texted her about the parties and events he attended with many female idols. Those things hurt Jina: “I’m just an ordinary person, they are really pretty.”

The companies will control the relationship

Almost all entertainment companies have imposed a ban on dating to ensure careers for artists and idol groups. No matter how secret they are, these relationships will be quickly tracked by the management company.

One day, Jina suddenly received a call from her boyfriend: “Jina, I think I need to break up with you.” He also got angry, claiming to end this relationship because the company discovered and took his phone. Jina said that she still did not know if it was the company forcing her boyfriend to break up with her or that it was just the reason he made up. Jina stated that it was still difficult after the breakup because she’d still see him on TV from time to time, making it harder for her to move on.

The story shared by Jina Kim is currently receiving a lot of attention from netizens. Besides the dark side of dating a celebrity, many people are curious about this male idol’s identity.

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